Eric, please leave the Internet ALONE already. BLOOD VOW?! Where are YOU getting your information from? Brothers will NOT discuss Ritual with you before it is appropriate , they will NOT change the way things are done or the way obligations are worded just to make YOU feel "comfortable" with YOUR struggle about becoming a Mason, without a vote of the Brotherhood and/or change in Const/By Law if a change would conflict with any article of said Const/By Law.
A Brother also will NOT allow his Lodge to become LESS tolerant of petitioners of various religions, just so you can feel comfortable about affiliating with ONLY Christian Masons. This is NOT a customer service oriented business, and we should not change to suit the whims of each individual member-----this is a TIME HONORED INSTITUTION, FRATERNAL ORDER, and a BROTHERHOOD. We are NOT perfect by any means; however, each Brother on this Forum is (or should be) striving to become a BETTER MAN than he was before he was made a FREEmason. FREEmasonry enjoys the beauty of FREEDOM OF SPEECH (respectfully!), DEMOCRACY, FREEDOM OF RELIGION, and SEPARATION OF CHURCH AND STATE----the core values on which this great Nation was established.
Surely, there are a multitude of changes that need to be made in Masonry, but most of them are relative to Intervisitation among Mainstream and PHA Brethren, (In Texas) utilization of modern technology to communicate with younger potential petitioners, infusion of new and different ways to teach/lecture the Brotherhood, innovative ways to raise funds without changing the focus of the Lodge, and perhaps even combining smaller or less populated Lodges in an area or region IF finances are THE PRIMARY OBSTACLE to progression. I'm no expert on Masonry by ANY means, and I don't have ALL of the answers to our issues.
But, the answer I have for YOU is that you should WAIT, Brother. In a previous post on a different thread, I gave you advice that was relative to seeking counsel from the Brothers IN THE LODGE FOR WHICH YOU HAVE PETITIONED. If you've done so, and consider yourself READY, open your MIND, EARS, and HEART, put down the keyboard, and close the MOUTH so you can LEARN. If you have yet to show THOSE MEN the respect of a sit down to make your reservations known, or if there is the slightest reservation in your heart, then NOW is not the time for you. It's THAT SIMPLE. If you pray, don't worry, and if you worry, don't pray. Good Luck with whatever you decide.
Regards, Bro. Vincent C. Jones, Sr., Bayou City Lodge 228
Prince Hall Affiliation, Free and Accepted Masonry, Houston, Tx
Most Worshipful Prince Hall Grand Lodge of Texas