When I took my EA degree I had no idea there was going to be an altar with a Bible. When I was told to kneel and put my hands on the Bible for my obligation I thought it was very nice that there was a Bible there. It never occurred to me that I could have asked to use one of my copies of the Poetic Edda for my FC and MM obligations. To me an oath is an oath is an oath and I don't need a book as an accelerator. Plus requesting my own book pushed close to introducing the topic of sectarian religion so I never thought to ask..
Thanks Doug - to my mind Pagan and Heathen all both relatives terms. I have a good Muslim friend and he often described me as an Infidel and I call him Pagan... Likewise I have other good Christian friends I call heretics... We laugh about this understanding that religion is often a function of culture and geography. If I'd been born in Mecca, chances are I would be Muslim. We should meet all these faith on the level without feeling our own is threatened... I have a faith that these problems are the GAOTU and he/she/it can sort it out... On a sort of similar note recently a new WM was obligating two candidates and asked them for their names and they only gave their first rather than full name. One PM was very upset and I simply replied I thought regardless, the GAOTU had their number....
(Oh, and I used the word "Pagan" because that's how some folk identify themselves, not in consideration of how others may identify another's faith).
Describing a VSL as an "amplifier" is interesting. I dont really think about it, but if look you in the eye and promise something, if the VSL is or is not there, it makes no difference.. my word is my word, so we are from the same school, but I know humans are fragile creatures and if push came to shove, having promised something over my VSL, I think I would be less likely to crumble under pressure.. but this also comes from someone who once chaired a meeting of 150 people and casually unequivocally stated "X will happen" and as soon as I said it, said to myself SH#T, I just made a promise, and spent the next 4 years of my free time making sure I delivered on it.
It is interesting that the VSL was not discussed prior to your initiation. It's a must here, they last thing one would want to do is make an assumption which gives offense.
Like you, I think the OP did not circumscribe his passions. No did they take the time to reflect on this and look for solutions.
I guess if the requirement is to take an obligation on a book, then that's what is required, but like you Doug, I can see ways to meet both needs.