Interesting.. would it be rude to ask you why you swapped ?
Not at all. It was mainly schedule and distance. I was driving 80 miles to Lodge every month. My schedule conflicted with the Lodge's stated meeting day. Those were the driving factors. I missed 2 years of meetings (while staying current on dues and sending monthly donations) and felt disconnected. No one ever checked on me or reached out to me....There were little things I didnt particularly like, such as the extra secretiveness and the fact that the Order was vegetarian. They didn't force it upon the menbers but we couldn't bring meat into building. The Supreme council were all vegans, and while that doesn't bother me, it could've halted my progress, as I don't think I would be willing to swear off meat to join the Condistory. They are definitely not a social Order (they told me that from the beginning) and outside of the Lodge there were no real opportunities to bond with Brothers. . .
But on a positive note, they take Masonry seriously. They are heavily focused on education, had guest speakers, require numerous papers on various topics, send out what they call "pieces of architecture" every month, and take the ritual Very seriously. They broke down the entire constitution, paragraph by paragraph, one paragraph per meeting. That was impressive. And they also cross over to Operative, requiring work of the hands. The GL was even built exclusively by the members. They also required a minimum of 12 months from 1st to 3rd (which I agree with), a year per degree (for most degrees) after that and 14 years to join the Consistory.
So it wasn't all negative by any means, but I felt in my heart that I had to make a decision.