It's the Faulkner Memorial Lodge No. 91 , I feel like my hopes of being a Mason May not come to flourish.
My advice to you dear friend is to find another lodge. What you experienced is unacceptable behavior, but unfortunately still does happen even in this day and age. You are certainly not alone in what you experienced either to be sure. I always give the advice, "find a lodge which fits you". Clearly this one does not.
Interesting note, you are posting in the "Becoming a Prince Hall Freemason" forum, but the issue you speak of surely is not a Prince Hall Lodge. Is there a PHA lodge in your area? Which flavor of Freemasonry are you looking towards? Just curious.
Even so, that's just stupid that this happened to you. I am not from VA, so I do not know anything of the cultural climate in that area. I did look on the MWPHGLoVA website and found no list of lodge of any sort. Your best bet might be to email or call the Grand Secretary (
http://www.mwphgl-va.org/contactus.html) and see if there be a lodge in your area. Good luck friend.