Quote Originally Posted by webstermason View Post
We had a candidate back out at the last minute because no one told him how much it was going to cost. Are we investigators obligated to explain these costs to him at our meeting with him?
Yes, I think so.
While "worldly wealth" is not a prerequisite to join the Fraternity, finances are a reality and most likely the petitioner won't ask about them. When on an investigation committee, besides the usual questions, I inform the petitioner that the fees for the degrees are $$$, the dues are $$$, from time to time he will be asked for donations for such and such. Is this a problem? Dues and fees are what they are. If it is a concern, perhaps he should find a Lodge that fits his finances better. I also tell him that some demands will be made of his time while he is progressing through the degrees. Also that some memorization is required of him. Is this a problem? If he can't find an hour or so a week to spend with his instructor, perhaps he should wait until his time restraints improve. If there are any dress requirements, I inform him of that also. I try to eliminate any uncomfortable surprises.