I was brought up living the values of honor and loyalty that I learned from my father and his father and his father, etc. If I were a man, I would be a mason. Unfortunately, the family line ends with me and my daughter and we are locked out of the organization due to our gender. I have no wish to be a Mason, mind you. I simply find it unfortunate that women of honor are set adrift in a world full of ordinary men who don't even try to live those values. There's something missing in the code of chivalry in this modern world when the value of honor is only recognized in men. And yes, I attended Rainbow girls and didn't find an ounce of honor among my peers. There was no guidance for female virtue other than being chaste and I find that to be a shame as well. The Masons have many secrets that I do not wish to know, but the code of chivalry is not a secret and applies to both men and women. Once learned, good luck trying to find a spouse who understands those standards, let alone lives them. That... is why a dating website makes sense. But, you are right. It wouldn't work. Because no Freemason would dare risk the name of the organization for a date unless he was a bad apple, and there is no way to discern the character or intentions of the women who might answer.