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In love with an Eastern Star

Mark Petro

Registered User
OK, I know it’s way off topic. But I have fallen in love with an Eastern Star. I feel as though she has the same feelings for me, but she is the widow of a Master Mason! Am I breaking my vows? Should I tell her that I feel the same way about her that she does about me? Should I tell her how I feel about her, my heart is telling me something that my vows feel as though I cannot proceed. Please give me some advice Brothers, Part of me tells me that her husband would not want her to be alone, but I cannot intrude on the relationship of a widow and her Master Mason husband!
 

Brother JC

Moderating Staff
Staff Member
Unless you plan on taking her by force you aren’t breaking your vows (at least the version I was obliged by).
 

Bloke

Premium Member
OK, I know it’s way off topic. But I have fallen in love with an Eastern Star. I feel as though she has the same feelings for me, but she is the widow of a Master Mason! Am I breaking my vows? Should I tell her that I feel the same way about her that she does about me? Should I tell her how I feel about her, my heart is telling me something that my vows feel as though I cannot proceed. Please give me some advice Brothers, Part of me tells me that her husband would not want her to be alone, but I cannot intrude on the relationship of a widow and her Master Mason husband!
All the very best of luck to the both of you! Dinner and a show is always good :)
 

CLewey44

Registered User
OK, I know it’s way off topic. But I have fallen in love with an Eastern Star. I feel as though she has the same feelings for me, but she is the widow of a Master Mason! Am I breaking my vows? Should I tell her that I feel the same way about her that she does about me? Should I tell her how I feel about her, my heart is telling me something that my vows feel as though I cannot proceed. Please give me some advice Brothers, Part of me tells me that her husband would not want her to be alone, but I cannot intrude on the relationship of a widow and her Master Mason husband!

They have no relationship anymore if he has passed away. Till death do us part. There is nothing illegal or immoral about dating a deceased Mason's former wife.

Marriage is a very earthly thing. If there is an afterlife, I doubt our dearly departed are in heaven sitting around jealous and concerned about those left behind. Its all a bit more grand than our minds can wrap around it I would imagine.
 
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